We've distorted the entire world by our twisted defenses, and therefore are thus observing what's not there. As we study to acknowledge our perceptual faults, we also learn how to glimpse past them or "forgive." At the same time we are forgiving ourselves, on the lookout past our distorted self-concepts https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTleG6-484F7WHZD0hAjRRw